No.20420
>>20418>give your girlfriend black coffee and a yummy cookie.sushi roll… I don't have one. I don't think I've ever really talked to a girl beyond polite stuff.
No.20485
>>20420well, if you don't give her cookies or coffee how do you expect the relationship to start?
No.20509
>>19408You can't help feeling what you feel, if you're happy with a man so be it. But to me it sounds like you went for men as a coping mechanism and not out of really wanting to, so maybe you should look into that.
Just remember that surrogacy is the exploitation of poor women and thinking that you should be able to rent a woman's body for 9+ months is extremely selfish and immoral.
>>20078Stable and long lasting! Ones that let me melt into them. I mostly just seem to remember the smell and firmness of the hugs when I've done it with my male friends. but it all depends on the situation. When cuddling it'd probably be loose and relaxed.
No.20554
>>19408>am i wrong for feeling this way?There isn't a wrong way to feel but there are wrong ways to act. We should strive to have balance in life and that means finding the sweet spot of not too much and not too little of anything. If you're only dating guys then that's a bad thing. Find the balance between both genders and you will benefit from both without being overwhelmed by their downsides. If you are fleeing from women (or men for that matter), you are closing yourself off from happy experiences and hurting yourself without good reason. Loving your boyfriend partly because he's not a woman isn't a healthy mindset to have. As for kids, there's no way a male can give you that. Its one of the disadvantages of our sex.
>>20389>What do you think someone like me should do where due to being older and not the best health I became less androgynous and more "rugged" looking when I don't like how I look now? You can't stop aging sushi roll. You can slow it down and take better care of your health and dress a little more to your liking, but you are going to loose those androgynous looks eventually. I guess you can adjust your style and presentation to feel better about yourself?
No.20557
>>20554> You can't stop aging sushi roll. I can try in futility though. I mean some people manage to look pretty young for a long time. I was really more talking about overall vibes though. I don't want to be seen as intimidating or creepy looking. It doesn't help when I am in public I wonder if when someone especially a girl looks my general direction I wonder if she is thinking something bad about me.
>You can slow it down and take better care of your health and dress a little more to your liking, but you are going to loose those androgynous looks eventually.> I guess you can adjust your style and presentation to feel better about yourself?I don't feel great about myself so perhaps. I've kind of already had that problem of not knowing how to dress since it's difficult to find that that overlap between something I like and look good on me and others like and properly represent an image of me to others. Plus finances.
No.20562
For girls: if you met a guy well into his mid 20s and learned that he had never had a relationship would that affect your judgment of him? like would you assume bad things about them past a certain age?
No.20590
>>20562no, but i recently participated in a survey about mate choice copying, did a bit more reading, and realise I'm probably in the minority.
No.20728
>>20055i'd prefer medium ones but small ones are cute. i have no problem with them at all
No.20732
>>20562No, honestly I find it interesting when people haven't followed the normal sort of progression for life where I live. But as the other sushi said, this is probably a minority opinion.
No.20733
>>20728also forgot to mention, i'd take small boobs over fake ones any day
No.20765
>>20733>fakeFake is dishonest. Be truthful.
No.20770
>>20765Better argument against breast implants is the health risks of leaking silicone and that they often need replaced every 10 to 15 years plus the scars created by the surgery.
No.20823
>>20770breast implants aren't as bad as botox. which is a listed biological warfare agent.
No.20838
>>20823I mean… it's done in a controlled manner. The same way that if you were administer drugs at too high of a dose, it would kill a person, but it can have positive benefits at a lower level.
No.21110
Women, do I have to be good at something/talented to be loved?
No.21167
>>21110i love all my friends and they're all good at something, and usually i think they're good at lots of things! but it's just a correlation, not a causation.
No.21584
>>21580I didn't find anything cringeworthy or embarrassing in your posts. Do not fret.
I love you too, Αηonymous. <3
No.21585
Rereading this thread just reminds me how over it is for me. even the "supportive" posts are laden with riders about how attention from freaks like me isn't wanted like this
>>20590I hate myself
No.21586
>>21585why would it be over and what makes you consider yourself a freak? i mean i know that being on image boards means most of us have lower chances at being wanted but a fairly big part of it also depends on what *you* do about it
for every time a sushi hates themselves i love them tenfold
No.21588
>>21580cheer up and look forward or else im pulling you forward from offscreen with a long cane!!!!!! due to our lacking capabilities humans know more about themselves than others do about them , and less about others than they do about themselves. so we cant judge ourselves fairly to begin with when this world has all these colors of humanity
well, word salad aside; youre not as bad as you may think you are, youre good actually
or so i think
No.21626
>>21586>why would it be over and what makes you consider yourself a freak? my age and inexperience + inability to talk to the opposite sex in a manner approaching a romantic relationship. even therapists are shocked at what a weirdo I am.
>but a fairly big part of it also depends on what *you* do about itI've either done everything I could or I'm just too weak to do more than I have. In any case it's over. Nobody wants someone they have to babysit and guide into being a "normal" relationship partner. I'm fat and ugly too.
No.21641
>>21626I think a big part of everything you can do to improve yourself will come back to accepting yourself. You can change your appearance and how you act and even your work and clothes but if you have zero self appreciation then you will always come back to the same. Of course this is easier said than done but how you carry and appreciate yourself goes a long way. Love yourself sushi
No.22115
Do girls really refer bad boys over nice guys?
No.22127
>>22117
Have you tried dating boys instead?
No.22128
>>22127Don't be disgusting.
No.22132
Do boys really like getting kicked in the balls? I thought this was supposed to be painful.
No.22133
>>22132It is extremely painful and not an enjoyable experience in the slightest.
I can only imagine it to be something of a masochism badge of honor, or really just one of those things where people had their desires twisted by what they look at online.
No.22144
>>22132It is a similar shocking feeling as being punched in the stomach and having the wind knocked out of you plus an electric jolt. I wouldnt get how someone would like that but masochists are a thing.
No.22147
what do i do about a guy whos constantly hot and cold? is it really normal for a guy to say he loves a girl and then feel uninterested a couple weeks later? but still keep talking to her? i feel conflicted and i need advice/comfort from other autists…
No.22155
>>22147How do you know he feels uninterested if hes still talking with you?
No.22156
>>22151this says (You) next to the name, but I never wrote this.
Because if I did I am going to freak out.
No.22158
>>22147He could just be shy and frustrated and not sure where to take things. Some guys can be like that.
No.22163
>>22156rest assured, I wrote this. but I could be you. there's really no telling
No.22165
>>21585Pretty much this.
I'm over 30 and never been in any kind of "serious" relationship. In part it's me dropping other people because I find them bad. In part I find myself unworthy of others and just want to distance myself. In part others shoot me down in a rather mean way, too. It's not like it's their fault, I just wish I was hurting less.
Well, I am also emotionally unstable and fairly emotionally self-sufficient, I just think the meaningful connection with another person would motivate me more but oh well.
Sometimes I just want to drive a sharp object through my neck so I don't have to talk to people anymore. It's so over, I cannot be normal.
No.22172
>>20562No, I would assume that his studies had him busy for many years. It's not uncommon to continue studying past your 30s if you have difficult courses you need to repeat. Most likely you just haven't had the opportunity to meet many people yet. Maybe past 35 I would start wondering if you actively avoid people and I might be hesitant to talk to you since I wouldn't believe you'd be honest with me about your real self.
No.22177
>>22172Unfortunately I only ever graduated highschool and struggle to keep a job after that but I appreciate the sentiment
No.22184
>>22147he said to me that he doesn't feel interested anymore, at least romantically. yet we continue to talk everyday so… i don't know. it feels like despite him saying he doesn't feel anything for me he hasn't changed his behavior much, which is whats confusing me. if i really didnt like someone, i'd stop talking to them entirely… i find it hard to believe he believes we're 'just friends'. its a stupid situation to stay in but its the one im in, so…
No.22185
>>22155oops, meant to reply to this
No.22186
>>22184i think what most people would asssume about this situation is that the girl is being used for sex/attention/etc but it really isn't any of that.
No.22192
Do girls like hair bows? Why don’t more girls wear hair bows?
No.22198
>>22192you mean those little bows that are just glued to a hair clip? i put them on my hats.
No.22246
>>22147I dunno, to me it seems like maintaining a human contact (friendship or similar) without pursuing any romantic goal is a normal thing to do. I would be confused if they tried to actually bring a relationship to a different point but then stopped mid-way or something - it could be weird at best and malicious at worst but unless there is a consistency/pattern with that, it could be just their social inexperience/ineptitude at play. Anyway I wouldn't sweat it at all if it was just an online thing.
